Chris Brown and Rihanna: A Dangerous Relationship or Proof That Domestic Violence Victims Can Move On?

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Chris Brown, Rihanna, Grammy, Domestic Abuse, violence against women

Chris Brown and Rihanna: A Dangerous Relationship or Proof That Domestic Violence Victims Can Move On?

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Chris Brown and Rihanna are no strangers to the media. As top artists in the R&B, Pop, and Hip Hop genres, Chris Brown and Rihanna are well known for their number one albums and top selling singles. Aside from their music, most people recall their violent breakup in 2009, where Brown assaulted Rihanna and later pled guilty to felony battery charges. Despite their history, both artists have recently collaborated and released remixes to two of their songs. As a high profile case that draws large attention to the topic of assault and battery, this begs the question: Are both artists sending the wrong message to the public about domestic violence? The answer is yes and no. The collaboration, on one hand, can be viewed as demonstrating that reconciliation is worth more than a person’s own safety. On another note, the situation can be also be seen as an attempt, mainly on Rihanna’s part, to send a positive message to victims of domestic violence that illustrates they are strong enough to overcome their situation and continue with their lives. 

Early in 2009, Brown was sentenced to complete a year-long domestic violence counseling course, a restraining order, five years probation, and 1,400 hours of community service (the equivalent of 180 days in jails). Rihanna, on the other hand, faced public scrutiny from the media and public. Aside from the media and celebrity status, Rihanna joined the ranks of physically assaulted women, becoming a “one in four” woman who experienced domestic violence in her lifetime.

Immediately after the incident made headlines, Rihanna received large support from her fans and the public. Brown, on the other hand, received severe criticism and was ostracized from the music scene immediately after. The most current public response to Brown was evident in the 2012 Grammys Awards show. He won a Grammy for the “Best R&B Album,” and was well received with applause and cheers by the crowd after his performance. It appears that the public has allowed Brown to return to his glory, and has moved on from the incident.

The public’s shift in mindset about the situation cannot be considered sick or twisted; rather, it is common and real. Domestic violence is a hidden, often ignored worldwide problem that does not discriminate based on race, ethnicity, economic class, gender, etc. Even more astonishing is the idea that people are not prepared to deal with these situations, especially the victims themselves. These characteristics are evident in Hollywood’s initial response to the situation, where many celebrities chose to not comment on the situation because it was not their relationship or they underreported the incident because both artists are young. This, much like the initial controversy of the collaboration, makes light of the gravity of domestic violence.

The recent musical collaboration between both artists can either be considered daunting or optimistic. By working together, both artists can be seen as downplaying the severity of domestic violence, and essentially conveying the idea that “time heals” or that people, despite their actions, deserve second chances. The situation, on the other hand, can be interpreted as a move of empowerment on Rihanna’s part, illustrating that domestic violence should not dictate the futures of victims, and that individuals are capable of moving on.

The gruesome reality of this situation forces the public to conflate Chris Brown and Rihanna’s celebrity status with their musical craft. Without a doubt, both artists are talented individuals in their own right, but they should also be aware of the meaning their collaboration communicates to the public. The decision to support or not support the collaboration between both artists (or more generally the “reunion” of the two) rests largely on everyone’s individual decision and ability to discern musical craft from individual actions.

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There should be consequences for beating your girlfriend and one may be that it follows Chris Brown for many years to come. That's his fault. Victims of domestic violence need to be able to move on but it should not include having the person who balled up his fist and hit you in the face in your life. Miranda Lambert's comments were perfect. And no one should have been clapping for him at the Grammys.

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  • Natalie Silver 3 months ago If you did not hear, Rihanna is the...

If you did not hear, Rihanna is the one who proposed the duet. He is not popping up unexpectedly, begging for him to take her back. He has a girlfriend, however legitimately interested they are in each other is questionable, but he has a girlfriend. He is a performer, and he did not kill anyone. They were applauding his performance, as they should have. Should one bad move really be the sole defining moment in a person's life? If he was still abusing women, this would be a very different situation.

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  • Lori Crossley 3 months ago It doesn't matter who requeste...

It doesn't matter who requested the duet- battered women also take their abusers back- it doesn't mean they should. What does the fact he has a girlfriend do with his behavior? Just because he hasn't pummeled another woman yet doesn't mean he's cured. And yes, there are actions that create lifelong consequences. Beating a woman's face is one of them. I believe he stole someone's IPhone this week.

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I completely agree with you , people tend to see situation as black and white. I want to be clear I do not support domestic violence but I also believe that every action has a consequence and once we have paid our due we should be allowed to move on. If we are not able to do that I see no point of having jails and releasing people after a due time when we believe they are ready to be a contribution to the society rather than hindrance !

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  • Lori Crossley 3 months ago Jails in the US are constructed to ...

Jails in the US are constructed to punish not rehabilitate. If they were the recidivism rate would not be so high. A person can pay their debt according to the law but the consequences of the original action can be far reaching. Beating anyone is pretty black or white. There is no grey.

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Two words - Publicity stunt.

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I think his GMA appearance was an indication that he hasn't changed much. He might have polished his act a little, but I doubt that he's changed. If she's stupid enough to go back with him dare I say she deserves what she gets. She should know bettter.

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  • Jesse Avila 3 months ago Lawrence: Thank you for your commen...

Lawrence: Thank you for your comment.I would agree with you in saying he has polished his act a little. Comparing the CB now to 1.5-2 years ago and you notice he hasn't been throwing those public tantrums he used to. Now I feel he is using technology more proactively to voice his opinion. I would disagree with you in saying Rihanna "deserves what she gets" for going back to him. I do not know what her motive for that is, but it is VERY common for victimes of domestic abuse to return to their abusive partner. This situation is interesting to watch.

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  • Nada Zohdy 3 months ago Jesse, thanks for importantly point...

Jesse, thanks for importantly pointing out that Rihanna isn't an anomaly in that way.

And Lawrence, saying she would "deserve what she gets" is profoundly problematic to me. Simplifying the complicated relationship and power dynamics present in any such situation, and saying that any person deserves to be abused for returning to an abusive partner unfairly places judgement and blame on the victim.

Domestic violence is never justifiable, and the psychological control (threats, etc.) perpetrators exert over their partners helps explain why so many women astonish people on the outside by staying with/returning to abusive partners, even if it (often) puts them in literally life-threatening situations. We shouldn't belittle their struggle.

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